Morning and how are we? I hope all of you had a great weekend. I am home today. I got about halfway to work and ended up on the side of the road in a little picnic area, spewing over the railway and into the marsh. Thankfully, while I was spewing, the county opened the bathrooms and I was able to use those facilities for other purposes. I’m hoping this is a 24 hour or less bug and I can return to work tomorrow. I feel wretched! Right now, I’m in jeans and a long sleeve tee, looking out into my yard that I need to have someone come and mow before winter.
We had a tropical depression come through on Saturday – Tropical Storm Nestor. No wind, but a lot of rain from moderately heavy to drizzle for the better part of 12 hours. Yesterday began overcast and ended sunny and cool. Well, 72 is cool after the HELL temps of the summer and up until 10 days ago. We will have a few days that reach 80 and 81 this week, but otherwise, 70’s and lows in the 60’s. I’m wishing I had screen doors so I could open the doors and turn off the air.
I spent most of the weekend, downloading books and fanfiction out of the Yahoo Groups. I”m rather… teary… at their demise, even though for the most part the function of Yahoo Groups has been dead for the better part of a decade. It was and still is the best forum for fandom – a website where people could talk, load documentation, fanfic, artwork, pictures, hold polls and keep records. It would be one thing if Yahoo said – we’re closing it to new members. YOu can’t load stuff anymore. It’s just going to be an email list.
But no, they are wiping out everything online. The mailing list will continue, but everything else will be gone. The message history will be gone as well. Which is upsetting as I used the group function as a type of cloud storage. In fact, I have quite a FEW personal yahoo groups I used for that particular purpose. So I”m cleaning them out and wondering where else am I going to store stuff. I think me burning a shitload of CDs is about to commence.
And I mean a shitload. Not a reference to my stomach acrobatics of this morning.
In my downloading, I found this.
You’re welcome. And thank you riepu10.
I found a picture of Pregnant Girly Girl, trying on my shoes.
I want to say the next morning, we had kittens.
Yes, she curled up in Spawn’s bed, under the covers and gave birth to 5 wet rats. Fat boy is in the mess somewhere.
I have a few pictures that don’t exist anywhere else but there and trying to download… well, right now, I have 2 laptops up and running.
Either way, I’m finding myself in the middle of 2 groups: One that is bemoaning the loss of all this HISTORY and a group whose attitude is – who cares? People are backing up groups, looking at ProBoard, looking at Tumblr, Facebook, WordPress, Livejournal, I have a Dreamcast that I put my fanwork on. Right now, I’m too busy preserving what I can. There was a period of several years when I couldn’t afford books, there was no such thing as ebooks and so all I read was fanfiction and some of it was QUITE good. Really. Quite VERY Good! And of course, some of it was horrid. I mean abysmal! And we’ll leave it at that. I, of course, lean towards the bemoaning. Once upon a time, I belonged to 144 groups. That’s down now to under 50 but that’s still a lot of stuff to go through. I’m mostly going after the fanart and the fanfiction. I found a personal group I had forgotten about and I had loaded books I’d forgotten about and lost in a computer crash oh… 9 years ago! So it’s nice to find these books and see if more were written in the series. That might be my challenge next year – to read the books downloaded that I thought I’d lost.
I have done no shopping in 21 days. Go me. Due to reasons (car) I’m working to do no shopping until after New Years. Maybe even after Valentines Day. They say we’re going to have a warmer than normal winter. I hope not. Last winter was quite mild and we’ve had the Love Bug and mosquito apocalypse the last few weeks. Thursday’s high is supposed to be 71, so I’m looking forward to wearing this –
Either way, I have plenty of clothes and don’t need a thing. So i’ll wait until what’s left goes on clearance. There really isn’t anything I really want.
Although my favorite pair of beige, closed toed shoes are giving up the ghost. I wore a pair of flat uber pointy toed type Mary Jane shoes on Friday and one of my students said – those are SO cute, but they are wicked!
Yeah. Those shoes!!!
Either way! Enough! ManCandy!!!
Last week I joked about all the beefcake we look at! The big thing now is Dad Bods. Many women find them sexy. Others don’t like anything that isn’t toned, buffed and tan! women are attacking other women because of bulges, love handles… a woman on a television news station received a TON of hate on her Instragram or Facebook from another woman because the viewer thought she needed to wear a girdle. Really? REALLY? I thought we were supposed to support each other!!!
Oh yeah, that’s right, only if we’re the right body shape and the correct political affiliation.
But not here. We’re good, right??? Right here, in this spot, all religious beliefs or lack thereof are accepted and all body types are body types and if you’re good with it, we’re good with it. We all have a shape and round is a shape! Am I right or am I right?
Now I”m good with the Dad Bod. For those of you wondering, a DadBod is typically that body men get once they become dads and are no long living in the gym, several hours a day, 5 days a week!
That’s scary.
See, I see that Dad Bod as the softening of hard muscle, that pinchable paunch.
Not a Dad Bod
I like my Dad Bod’s with a bit less…. hair.
Not a Dad bod
Nope
Nope.
Is it me, or does it look like he’s peed himself? And the black sock and tennis shoes combo… Nerd alert.
This man has been given grief about his Dad Bod!
I’m thinking… are you SERIOUS???? Jason????
I love that some have a sense of humor in the face of their detractors!
And ladies… we’re not the only ones who get photoshopped!
Yeah. Pizza, sodas, beer, throwing dinner together, work, family, sometimes the only exercise you get is mowing the yard. But our men are still gorgeous. Even this one!
I’d like to pinch his love handles!!!
I hope you are feeling a bit better especially writing this sweet MCM post. I was never in any Yahoo groups or anything on line until last year but I hope you can download all your memorabilia and find a safe storage for all those years of memories.
Girly Girl looks so young there!!
Sir Guy is always great to drool over. Richard I like hunkier like the last picture but he looks incredibly sweet with the child actress playing Zoe in those pics.
Jason has the right attitude about everything!!
Girly Girl was PISSED I was taking her picture just after she had given birth!
My son wok up and discovered she was giving birth next to him. I was at the grocery and I get a frantic phone while I’m checking out – MOM!!! You have to come home RIGHT NOW! RIGHT! NOW! OMG i think she’s having another!
Richard was quite beefed up for The Hobbit, but I think he’s naturally lean. I sense a touch of softness in those Dad pics of his. Must be the track pants…
I think he is a softy… he has two nephews he probably dotes on a lot!! I would happily volunteer to “adopt” kids with him..
Girly Girl was probably thinking these little rats are eating me alive!! So I take it you gave 4 of the critters away and kept Lord T?
I like him beefed up especially as Proctor.. yeah I think he is probably pretty lean and prefers to stay lean although the older one gets it is very hard to not gain weight.
He looked terrible last year too thin when he filmed My Zoe. Maybe Julie was ok with that look or preferred it or maternally thought not gonna ask him to gain weight after his mom passed away.
I wish I had half your confidence level in EVERYTHING!!!
I think last year was just a difficult year for him. That first year after the loss of a loved on is the worst.
My original intention was to keep the only girl in the batch, Calypso. But I couldn’t find a home for Lord T. Calypso however, was a horrible cat. She did not wish to be touched – ever! she wanted us on the opposite end of the room at all times. She refused to use the litter box =- peed and pooped on everything. I tried every littler, we cleaned endlessly, we had THREE litter boxes. Still refused. We put plastic bags in a litter box – she liked that, but we had to completely change out ALL of the bags, not the one she’d peed and pooped on – immediatedly. She ruined carpets, shoes, anything in the floor, the floor = we had hardwood floors. Ruined. The fist time she went into heat was the longest nights as she would scream all night long in the hall and she would go into heat 10 days after she went out of heat. She sprayed the walls. We went to the laundrymat once and she got in a basket of clean clothes while we were still bringing them in and peed in them. I went through more vinegar in a month than is humanly possible. If we were lucky, we would chase her into the family and leave her in there with water food and a litter box she wouldn’t use. every feral cat would circle house and we closed every door between the sunroom our rooms to drown her out. I finally caught one night, put her in a pet carrier and hauled her to the vet and she was fixed and we made sure her shots were up to date and the world became her litter box. We fed her and all the feral cats until we moved and then our neighbor took over.
It was NOT how I wanted to deal with her, but the only alternative was Craigs List and most animals are picked up by laboratories to ‘testing’ and lab experiments. We took her to the Humane society twice and they wouldn’t take her (full) so our best option was fix and make sure the shots were upto date. It bothers me to this day.
We just had some excitement. Our neighborhood motorcycleist missed the curve just above our house, hit the curb, somersaulted and ditched. 1 Ambulance, 4 cop cars, a fire truck, the fire marshal, (who lives across the street from me,) and 2 local Army someones not on base who stopped to render aid. I hope he’s okay – they didn’t cart him out in a body bag.
OMG on the motor cyclist. Yes hopefully he is ok.
Calypso is a beautiful name. Reminds me of the John Denver song.
Bless his heart Lord T is an angel compared to Calypso.
Oh you know it! She was an evil evil kitty!!!
Well we know the world is full of superficial people and it is no ones business whether I have love handles, am overweight or whatever, nor is it my business to judge anyone else. I would rather be beautiful on the inside and beauty with an ugly heart you can keep. Same with men, you get to know them, you judge them individually and you accept people as they are or not. Love the pic of Girly Girl. She was looking at you like what? your taking pictures at a time like this? Actually I wish I was Zoe he can hold me like that any day. hehehe
I hope you feel better! Yes, round is a perfectly good shape! I may not be quite so into the dad bod though. Luckily my hubby is going to the gym almost every day. For him, not for me.
I’m moving today and am at school. Don’t feel a lick worth of beans.
At least you’re up and about.
Sorrt of.
I don’t know WHAT this is, but it has laid me low!!!
Hope the kids don’t get it!
I would hope I don’t give it to anyone. God only knows where I picked it up. I was thinking maybe food poisoning, but Spawn hasn’t had it. But then again, he’s more resilient than I am. Go figure.
I hate those stomach things. Yuck.
They’re the pits. Some kid lost his lunch on the table during lunch today. Just…. ick.
Must be going around then
We had tacos and I think he mixed up stuff he didn’t need to mix up!
I won’t ask what he didn’t need to mix up but the one end is better today no?
I take my husband’s dad bod anyday over a toned non-dad bod. Seriously. Because he is a damn good dad, and therefore a thousand times more attractive than any of those gym rats. There. That’s some strong words.
Hope your bug has been cleared up. That sounded pretty awful.
The bug is less severe. Still feeling low.
What I’m trying to say with the Dad Bods is Guys get soft like we do. Gravity does them in too. It seems the only way to reverse that is to live in the gym. That’s wrong.
What got me was when I saw Jason Momoa was getting hate for not keeping up with that 6 pack. He shouldn’t have to and no one has the right to say something about it. I”m sure his wife and kids love him anyway and are enjoying the fact he’s hanging with them, rather than breaking a sweat at the gym.
top that with the weather woman who was getting hate over ‘her gut’ and the demand she wear a girdle. She’s gorgeous and looks good compared to me. (Something I shouldn’t do) and it leaves me wondering WHY are are so judgmental about someone else’s looks???
So while I do drool over SOME of the gym rats, I would be happy with a man whose good to me and has love handles etc.
Also, I’d bet donuts to dollars that Richard’s ‘Dad Bod’ would be very nice as well.
Zee yes yes and yes!! It’s disgraceful how mean people are about looks. I get the Richard beard vs clean shaven thing that is personal preference .. but when Jason Momoa gets hate thrown at him for getting “fuller” in his down time I mean that’s terrible. He has a wonderful attitude I love how he said he “married his childhood idol Lisa Bonet” I love how cool he is with his stepdaughter and Lenny Kravitz and gives people kindness and respect. Many could learn from him.
I’m gonna share a couple of your pics w/a few girlfriends. Still laughing about The Buff photo.😂
The Buff is perfect!!!