So we have our house picked out – which is a massive relief. Paperwork is filled out, all I need is my app fee. I get paid Thursday, but I’m thinking I’ll put it on the credit card and pay it IMMEDIATELY when I get paid. The plan is to go to the house after the current tenants are out (mid-July) and measure rooms. Have to figure out where all of my furniture is going to go! The living room is smaller, the dining room is smaller, the family room is smaller. They’re all good sized, don’t get me wrong and the bedrooms are a a bit bigger, a huge plus, but my living room is going to be stuffed. Also, more windows, less wall space! I have a lot of bookcases to deal with. Been working on them today among other things.
Spawn seems to be coming to grips with the move. For those who don’t know or don’t remember, Spawn has Asperger’s and something that all people who have a PDD is a great fear of change. They like their routine, they like knowing what to expect, they like a lot of routine routine routine. This move is disrupting the routine. He’s not had a Classic Meltdown yet, but I expect it sometime in the next few weeks.
I went into the family room this morning, to find his tripod, his camera, his games have been taken down and put away. (He’s been filming himself playing a lot of OLD ninetendo games. Don’t ask me why, he does.) and when he got up this morning he told me – we have a lot of work to do and we can’t do it while I’m playing games. So apparently after filming, he told his followers on his social media that he’s taking a sabbatical – long enough to pack and move. One month.
I’m really proud of him. I am. This is a big step for him and for him to take it on his own, Yay. Also, he’s packed up his video tapes, been putting away clothes in his dresser, really has done a lot! I found four packed boxes in his cave closet!
In the meantime, we’ve decided to take a load of school stuff to my new digs tomorrow. I don’t want stuff to get mixed up with the movers. And if I can get it out of my house and out of the garage, the better for me.
According to the work order, my Beast will be overnighted out today and I’ll have it tomorrow. And then the new re-tweeking and finding the things I did backup and reloading them. And sometime between now and the NEXT crash, I need to redo my externals so I won’t have a little bit here and a little bit there. And burn like crazy. 9 Externals is way too many. I have no clue where anything is!
And last, before I forget. A good friend of mine has started a Gofundme for me. She says between the flood, the wreck, the pissiness of HP and the move, that would financially strap anyone.
If you could share this, I’d be appreciative!
Here. Have some Richard!
yeah!! Everything sounds right on track now!! I’m so happy Spawn is now with the program maybe yesterday was a blessing in disguise that he knows this move is happening and he needs to help move it forward! Hopefully you will get some mail tomorrow !!
I hope I get some mail tomorrow too! Between the return of The Beast and a much-anticipated gift, I can’t wait!!! We’ve been packing like crazy. The house is starting to look a tad bit stark! When we come back from my parents next week, I’m going to start at the front and move backwards, trying to pack up everything!
Yeah tracking says Friday but hopefully it will be tomorrow.. Just think the new house will be waiting for you and this house was a joy for the 4+ years in it. Are the kiddies freaking out?
The kitties are not being nice at all. Girly Girl is sleeping on everything, getting her hair on everything. FatBoy thinks he has to not only get in every box, but pull the newspaper all over. Not only that, he’s refusing to poop in the litter box. He’s pooping in front of it, which is annoying. He’s been doing that now for a month. He’s quite ornery!
I’m glad Spawn has come to terms and is taking some initiative. That’s great. My son’s younger of course, but when we moved five years ago it was hard on him, even though the house is great and it allowed him to go to the high school he needed. Still, up until maybe a year ago he still was saying how much he missed the old house. Hopefully Spawn will settle in quickly.
He’s taking a semester off school, in order to help us get situated and find him a car, which he will need. We will need to plug into the gym as well as plug into a church really quickly, where he can make friends and socialize. It’s weird – he’s very social and needs to be with people.
My kid is the same. He has always sought out youth centres and organized sports where he can be part of a structured social group.
Proud of Spawn and how marvelous he is helping you.You must have done something right the way he is doing all this and adjusting better than you thought. Thank you as always for the Richard pics. Always brightens up the day. May each day be brighter than the next as you go through this move.
He knows this was a mental health and physical health move for me. When I first applied for the job, he was very upfront – I don’t care. You will die in that school another year. I’ll cope. So that’s where we are with that.