First off, I caved.
The week has been soooo bad. So bad. The total cost including SH is around 80.00, so that’s that. I can’t even LOOK anymore. Can’t. Oh and they won’t ship until the very end of March. Done. Donedonedonedone.
But you’ve heard THAT before.
My knee reminded me painfully today that I have arthritis. I’d rather have grey hair, to be honest. I’ve had several long days at work, today was a great day, until my last class. And now I have no voice. If my ovaries still worked, I would be taking birth control pills by the handful! I NEED to sleep in tomorrow, however, I have singing competitions to play for. I have 2 pieces giving me fits and I’ve broken the nail on my anchor pinkie down past the quick. It’s wrapped, but it still hurts.
Are you ready for some Guy? I am. 
Yes, you’re worth it!
Curls… stubble… I’m dead.
My favorite Guy!
I knew you’d agree!
I’m calling it a night. Or maybe I should call it a Knight…
zee's muse 
Those are all wonderful pics especially the bare chested
one. I hope your recitals go well tomorrow
You always rock so positive thoughts w you!!
Try to get some rest on Sunday!!
Why “caved” – who did you promise not to buy anything? You totally deserved it after the week you had. I am all for women rewarding themselves with the things they enjoy. You are worth it!
I promised me because it’s making the credit card tight and right now, I feel my little obsession has become excessive. Spawn and I are in a tight spot, and not so tight we can’t wiggle or make it. But still… I’d like to be back in a place where I had more than 2 bucks left over at the end of the pay period.
And the time will come. But sometimes a good mood is more important than a healthy account 😉
Yep 👍 I second that sentiment!!❤️❤️😘😘
Oh I understand about more than $2 left over. it is very frightening and with credit cards I tend to forget if one was purchased this month or at a date it goes into the next. Don’t put yourself in debt but don’t deny yourself when you can. We all deserve what makes us happy. Oh and thank you for those delicious pictures of Guy. That man just turns me to pudding. grrrrr
Typically, I pay twice a month on credit cards. So I pay more than the minimum. I’ve actually paid my Zulily card off twice since October. It won’t take long to pay it off anyway.
However my Roamans card has got me over a barrel and I”m going to have to STOP opening emails and STOP looking just to look and have Spawn throw their catalogs away so I don’t even see. Really.
And to make it worse, I can do well – go 30 to 45 days, making several payments and I’ll get an email – GUESS WHAT! You’re such an awesome customer, we’ve UPPED YOUR LIMIT!!!! It’s unreal and sadly, right now, I NEED bras and I NEED a pair of black or white dress trousers for Easter. I’m thinking I’m just going to live with my bras with popped wires and go across the street to Cato in April and buy a pair of dress pants.
If I can just pay on cards and not spend on them from now until August, I’ll have Zulily paid off, I’ll have my Care Credit paid off (dental) and I”ll have a huge chunk off my Roamans.
But I have a beautiful closet…
And I go out to get the mail and guess what’s in it???? Straight to the garbage!!!
One thing I have learned to do is pay off my credit cards in full so since I am on a limited income I have to watch, but I still want to buy myself something good I do it andyes they always give you more money to make it seem like you deserve it, which I am sure you do, however we ca’t let it go to our heads lol
I originally did that. When I moved here in 2015, I had so little clothing. I was living in a motel and if I hung up everything I owned, except my underwear, I still didn’t fill the 3 feet of closet I had. And then I was paying out of pocket for almost a year for clothes – I had a strict budget and I kept to it. Even when I got the Roaman’s credit card, the limit wasn’t THAT much and I bought one month and paid off the next.
But then the limit got higher and higher… and Zulily is SOOO cheap. It adds up.
And I no longer have such a small wardrobe.
Ah that is over compensating. I have done that. I grew my hair to my waist to prove I could do it after being bald, so I now about overcompensation. lol
Me too raising my hand! It’s all love here so
you both are worth it and if it makes you happy
that’s what it is all about! Nobody casts stones on
anybody here!! Did that all make sense? My knee
is hurting too tonight!😱😫🤨
IT is pouring the rain here and I’m walking with a limp. I need to find my brace.
Maybe Spawn knows where it is?! How’s the finger?
He doesn’t. I”ve seen it as recently as yesterday.
My finger feels weird, but not sore like it has. I figure by tomorrow or Tuesday, it will be okay
When I was unemployed for 5 years, I couldn’t afford to get my hair cut, so it was down to my waist when I finally got a job. I kept it in a long ponytail. When I had it cut 3 months after the fact, I donated it to a cancer wigs place for children. (Don’t remember who, and it wasn’t Locks of Love because they charge for their wigs.)
I can’t style my own hair is why it is long and straght because I can’t use my left arm enough. It will not raise to my head to work on my hair. lol Yes, a lot of women do that and I think it is a lovely thought. They only take a certain length correct? When I cut mine it is a few inches t a tim.
At the time, I donated 22 inches of hair. It was VERY long. I put my pony tail as high on my head as I could get it.
ah, the days I use to be able to wear a pony tail on the top of my head the fan it out, it was a simple yet nice looking hair do. Don’t realize the simple things we can do until it is gone. But as they say everything happens for a reason. Only thing is I keep asking why and don’t get an answer and am stlll waiting for it.
Irish you’re here! We love you!! I agree everything happens for a reason so no worthies
I couldn’t wear my hair long now a days even if I tried!